Going nowhere in life?Read This!
“Going nowhere in life” is something we often hear and sometimes we think it too.We are hurrying for success and that’s the main reason we feel that.
Hurrying For Success? Not Needed At All!
In today’s fast-paced world, we are all in a hurry.In a hurry to get success in our life, In a hurry to get things done and not only get things done but it must be done right, In a hurry to achieve perfection and excellence.We get dejected when things don’t happen our way when results are not achieved instantly!
It’s a race and we are scared of left behind!
Decrease In “Age Of Achievement”
The age of achievement is decreased.Fifteen-year-olds are developing codes and selling websites.By the time you are 25, you have a company of your own.Or you are an accomplished musician who has travelled across the world.People are doing too much in too little time.Only some people.
All these things scare us and that’s why no one wants to be wrong or imperfect, no one wants to be second and everyone wants to achieve their targets in the first attempt without experiencing failures.
No matter what you are doing, whether you are a JEE, CPT student, or a CAT, XAT, MAT, GMAT student, or an interviewee, everyone wants to crack it in the first attempt.
Everyone is running behind perfection!!
And all these things are scaring the hell out of us.If at 25 you are still slogging in a 9-to-6 job, you feel worthless.All your friends are getting married and posting pictures of their honeymoon to New Zealand or some exotic destination you can’t even think to afford in next 2 years.Time is running out; the world is running past you and you……you find yourself struggling to even get up from your bed!!That’s the reason we think we are going nowhere in life!
Going Nowhere In Life? Relax!
Relax!! Take a deep breath.The world is full of all kind of people-those who get successful early in life and those who do later.There are those who get married at 25 and but divorced at 30, and there are those who find love at 40 and never gets apart!!
Henry Ford was 45 when he designed his revolutionary model T car.
You are unique, don’t compare yourself to others!!
Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before securing a good job, and there is another who graduated at 27 and secured employment immediately!
Someone became CEO at 25 and died at 50 while another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years!!
Everyone works based on their “TIME ZONE“!!People can have things worked out only according to their pace!!!
“Time Zone” Concept
Work in your “time zone”. Your Colleagues, friends, younger ones might “seem” to go ahead of you. May be some might “seem” behind you. Everyone is in this world running their own race on their own lane in their own time. God has a different plan for everybody. Time is the difference.
“Obama retires at 55, Trump resumes at 70. Don’t envy them or mock them, it’s their ‘Time Zone.’ You are in yours!”
Early success doesn’t assure a happy life and neither a late success defines a sad life.
You could open a company at 25, you could also go bankrupt at 30 if the company dissolves. You could find success at 40, and perhaps you’d be more well-equipped to handle it then. Whatever happens, happens for a reason.
Everything Happens For A Reason
Maybe that lost job was not right for you. Maybe you are meant to hone your skills for something great later. There is no right time. We get things when we are ready for them. When it doesn’t happen for you, it means it’s not supposed to happen right now. No point worrying yourself sick and envying another.Instead of complaining spend your time polishing your personality, acquiring new skills, learning a new language – create the person you want to be in future. Create the personality that will match your success. Work towards your goal at your own pace. Everybody has their own timeline. What if you are meant to do something worthwhile in some years when you are older and wiser, but you were too busy feeling bad about yourself and drowning your woes in alcohol. Imagine the regret.Just sharp your skills and excel in your areas.Because everyone has a hidden power which is not known to the person!!!
Develop Yourself Until Your “Time Zone” Comes To You
Just focus on developing yourself until your ‘Time Zone’ occurs in order to be well equipped for that upcoming event.Here are 10 ways to improve your personality.
Spend your time polishing your personality, acquiring new skills, learning a new language – create the person you want to be in future. Create the personality that will match your success. Work towards your goal at your own pace. Everybody has their own timeline. What if you are meant to do something worthwhile in some years when you are older and wiser, but you were too busy feeling bad about yourself and drowning your woes in alcohol. Imagine the regret.
Opportunities never cease to come. If today is not your day, it could be tomorrow. Don’t stop living your life just because it isn’t happening.
Just keep trying harder because someone somewhere believes in you!!!
Enjoy failures and learn new experiences but never lose hope and never stop trying!!!
You can do something great and it’s coming on your way!!
Till then prepare yourself and get prepared!!!
Because “NOT ALL THOSE WHO WANDER, ARE LOST”!!!So, never think you are going nowhere in life because everywhere you walk is a path that leads to some destination.
Till then, relax by listening to best mind relaxing music list.